{"id":2132,"date":"2021-03-17T05:59:35","date_gmt":"2021-03-17T05:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lewandmassager.com\/pleasure-guide\/?p=2132"},"modified":"2024-07-15T08:55:27","modified_gmt":"2024-07-15T08:55:27","slug":"sexual-pleasure-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lewandmassager.com\/pleasure-guide\/sexual-pleasure-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"Stepping Into Your Sexual Power Zone"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

This month is all about stepping into, what we like to call, your sexual power zone<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Your sexual power zone is a part of your aura that leads to your sexual freedom or pleasure. That moment when your gut or intuition feels warm, powerful, and that super sexy power comes alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some of the ways I’m stepping into my power zones to give you an example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I changed my single status to solo poly because I wanted to connect with multiple partners and build stronger relationships with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I just moved to a new city and I want to find a Rigger (aka rope daddy\/mommy) to satisfy my bondage vibes of being tied up (aka rope bunny).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still on the fence about this one but I am curious to creating a mukbang<\/a><\/strong> while interacting with a new audience as they watch me eat large quantities of my favorite foods. Food porn is such a hot thing!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I started devoting a day out of the week to self-care, self-indulgence, and self-pleasure with long masturbation sessions, eating whatever I wanted, and then taking a long-ass nap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But to get to that sexual power zone comes a journey. And in that journey, you are tapping into a lot (or maybe just some) of your inner warrior that is going to open up old shit, good shit, and shitty shit in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, give yourself some grace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sexual Power Zone with Dirty Lola<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I had a chance to connect with one of my favorite colleagues in the game, Dirty Lola, and ask her how she was able to step into her sexual power zone:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Every decade I have under my belt has brought with it a new sexual power zone to step into,” she said. “My twenties were wild, but I also spent that time healing from trauma. I went from thinking I was broken to knowing how magical my body truly is. With my thirties came the confidence that had eluded me all my life.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She went on to say “I was finally able to see my glory for myself. The shackles of what others think of me fell away and I realized I didn’t want to live a life wishing I’d acted on the things I felt in my heart.<\/em>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“All of this didn’t just happen. It took work. I did the hard work to heal my wounds. I found ways to bolster my confidence (I will always say selfies and tasteful nudes are magic) and I left learning about my body.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’re feeling the vibes, and your partner(s) are feeling your vibes and some really good happenings are about to go down!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Step Into Your Sexual Power Zone<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

So how can we kick the crap we’ve developed over the years and start stepping into our sexual freedom from the gripes of the day-to-day hustle?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here’s how to get started:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get curious about your pleasure<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The great thing about sexual pleasure is that it’s so broad that at most times, we’ve barely noticed that we’ve scratched the surface.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An example can be my typical day of walking to my local park and I notice a hottie that frequents the park around the same time. I don’t need to say hello, but I can take that image home with me and fantasize about the way their hair flowed in the wind with that sexy stride. Maybe even invest in a pair of similar tights they wore and explore how they can feel on my body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Surprisingly, I’m stepping into a voyeur power zone because I have asked myself what intimacy is like without going straight to porn and how can I explore my body with pleasure other than sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Believe that you are worth to receiving pleasure<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your body is a bodacious babe! It takes some time to accept it just the way it is. So, a helpful tip can be to give love to a part of your body that you don’t like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You could grow to love it just like that blooming house plant in your home. How did that house plant get to be so big and luscious?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You watered it, fertilized it, and gave it positive vibes with affirmations or singing to it. Now flip the switch on that body part. I love body cr\u00e8me and oils, so my moisturizing session is clutch. I’m also into trying new threads that are trendy but not exactly gender-specific to how I identify like coveralls from wildfang.com.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep experimenting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Above all, make sure you’re having fun constantly experimenting with new ways to evoke your sexual power zone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Embrace<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Remember, your sexual power zone is never linear. So, learn to pivot and encompass the changes with it. Because that’s what keeps you empowered! You can have a bad day and fuck yourself clean. Or you can have a good day and rub down a chat with Dirty Lola on peplove.com.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever you do, take care and revel in your new sexual power.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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