everything you’ve
ever wanted to know
about stainless steel
sex toys

Stainless steel sex toys are the newest must-haves for your sex toy collection. Yes. You did read that correctly. Stainless. Steel.

If you have never seen a stainless steel sex toy, check out these beauties and catch your jaw before it hits the floor.

These toys are not some torture relics from the dungeons of yore but are seriously amazing toys for sex. These toys are heavy (duh) and can add pressure and weight to your sexual play without much manual effort. These toys can engage the entire clitoral structure (both internal and external), massage the G-spot with newfound intensity, and even ignite the nerve-rich anal opening with a deep sensation that silicone sex toys just don’t have (not that we don’t love silicone toys, because we do).

It’s called gravity and these toys know how to make the most of it.

Stainless steel sex toys are the heavyweights of sex toy exploration, and you should check them out. If you’re feeling curious, read on. This is everything you need to know (literally everything).

benefits of using
stainless steel sex toys

We cannot stress enough the importance of using body-safe sex toys when you’re engaging in any kind of sexual play. Be sure you’re buying high-quality toys made of good materials like medical-grade (or body-safe) silicone, TPR plastic, or… metal!

The anus and vulva-vaginal areas are quite absorbent and you don’t want to be putting something gross in either area. You wouldn’t eat an apple covered in chemicals, right? The same should be true of sex toys. Anything going inside of your body should be body-safe.

An inherent benefit of using stainless steel sex toys versus other toys made of body-safe materials is that it is both (almost) totally indestructible and is super easy to clean. If you buy a stainless steel sex toy, you basically have a sex toy for life. They don’t break down, lose their quality, or break. While high-quality sex toys will last a long time in general, they ain’t got nothin’ on stainless steel. Plus, they’re also terrific for temperature play.

If you’re going to invest - these toys are a safe bet.

Lastly, you know how we mentioned gravity in the intro? You might have thought, “Hm. OK. I don’t know what that means.” Let’s break it down. When we refer to gravity we mean literally exactly what it sounds like: Letting the earth’s pull enhance the sex toy on its own. Once inserted, a stainless steel sex toy will pull down on all the good things (aka: nerve endings) without much help. This tidbit can be particularly useful for those who are just beginning their stainless steel adventures and are feeling a bit apprehensive. You don’t have to “fuck” anyone with one of these toys (like you might with a silicone dildo). You can simply pop it in and see what happens.

meet the new le wand
stainless steel collection

SIMPLE. SENSUAL. SIGNIFICANT.
Explore and experience unique sensations with the new Le Wand Stainless Steel collection — A set of 5 beautifully crafted sex toys designed for vaginal play and anal play alike. Whether you're experimenting solo or with a partner, find out why beginners and enthusiasts utterly adore these durable pleasure tools.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.33in
  • Length : 7.95in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1.1in
  • Weight : 1.11lbs

The Bow is the ultimate multifunctional sex toy that acts as a dildo, a vaginal exerciser, and a G-spot & P-spot stimulator.

SIDE 1 - Designed for squeezing and releasing to exercise the kegel muscles. The bulbous end is fantastic for G-spot or P-spot play.

SIDE 2 - Designed for pin point, focused stimulation of the G-spot or P-spot. Very small and easy to insert.

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for first stainless steel toy user and those seeking G-spot or P-spot stimulation.
  • Smaller end is great for first time anal play.
  • The ridge along the bulbous end is designed to stimulate the most sensitive parts of the vaginal opening and anal sphincter.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.33in
  • Length : 7.95in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1.1in
  • Weight : 1.11lbs

SIDE 1 - Designed for squeezing and releasing to exercise the kegel muscles/bulbous end is fantastic for G-spot or P-spot play

SIDE 2 - Designed for pin point, focused stimulation of the G-spot or P-spot. Very small and easy to insert.

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for first stainless steel toy user and those seeking G-spot or P-spot stimulation.
  • Smaller end is great for first time anal play.
  • The ridge along the bulbous end is designed to stimulate the most sensitive parts of the vaginal opening and anal sphincter.

Usage Tips:

  • When using it vaginally, try facing it towards the anal canal to stimulate the V-Spot. The V-spot is the least-talked-about hot spot in the vulva-vaginal area. "V" stands for vaginal vestibule, the opening of the vagina, or the area just before entering the canal, right past the labia minora (inner lips). This whole area contains a ton of nerve endings, and "in some women, the nerves grow really close to the surface here," One of the most sensitive parts of the V-spot is the fourchette, located on the posterior (or bottom) of the vaginal opening. Bow’s bulbous end is particularly great for stimulating this area because of the curved shape and size
  • Use as a vaginal/kegel exerciser by inserting the bulbous end and squeezing and releasing the kegel muscles.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.4in
  • Length : 10.3in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1in
  • Weight : 1.39lbs

Ideal for beginners, solo, and couples play, the Hoop has the perfect curvature to arouse & stimulate every pleasure point.

SIDE 1 - Perfect curvature to achieve a direct connection to the G-spot/P-spot + added ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening

SIDE 2 - Smaller side to achieve a direct connection to the G-spot/P-spot. Great for teasing or beginners.

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for directly stimulating the G-spot or P-spot with two different design and size options.
  • The rippled texture under the teardrop side stimulates the internal entrances.
  • Smaller side is ideal for first time P-spot stimulation.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.4in
  • Length : 10.3in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1in
  • Weight : 1.39lbs

SIDE 1 - Perfect curvature to achieve a direct connection to the G-spot/P-spot + added ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening

SIDE 2 - Smaller side to achieve a direct connection to the G-spot/P-spot. Great for teasing or beginners.

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for directly stimulating the G-spot or P-spot with two different design and size options.
  • The rippled texture under the teardrop side stimulates the internal entrances.
  • Smaller side is ideal for first time P-spot stimulation.

Usage Tips:

  • Angle either side into the body and gently tap, pulse, or rotate.
  • Smaller side can be used in a similar way as an Anal Hook to hold a submissive partner in place.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.15in
  • Length : 8.46in
  • Side 2 bulb : 0.42in
  • Weight : 1.14lbs

Intricately made for internal exploration, the Swerve is our most dynamic sex toy to hit the elusive G-spot, P-spot, and every other pleasure spot.

SIDE 1 - Ergonomically designed to target the prostate or gspot it delivers firm, controlled massage

SIDE 2 - anal beadlike shape made for fluid and smooth movement to stimulate the sensitive anal sphincter

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for those looking to up their both their internal and sphincter anal play game.
  • The angled design feels good in the vaginal canal as well.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.15in
  • Length : 8.46in
  • Side 2 bulb : 0.42in
  • Weight : 1.14lbs

SIDE 1 - Ergonomically designed to target the prostate or gspot it delivers firm, controlled massage

SIDE 2 - anal beadlike shape made for fluid and smooth movement to stimulate the sensitive anal sphincter

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for those looking to up their both their internal and sphincter anal play game.
  • The angled design feels good in the vaginal canal as well.

Usage Tips:

  • Once inserted into the body, gently rock the wand -or your body- to enjoy the weighty and firm massage.
  • Can be paired with the silicone textured ring included with the Chrome Bullet, Grand Bullet and Baton products.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.4in
  • Length : 8.3in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1.35in
  • Weight : 1.87lbs

The Arch is the only toy you need to obtain endless orgasms. This sensually curved beauty provides a direct connection to the G-spot!

SIDE 1 - Classic girthy dildo shape that is angles to stimulate the G-spot + added ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal opening

SIDE 2 - Angled, flat end for direct G-spot stimulation

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for those who prefer a little girth, folks that like medium-heavy weight, and people looking for G-spot stimulation.
  • Upward angled flat end is ideal for folks experimenting with squirting.
  • Accessible size for double penetration.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.4in
  • Length : 8.3in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1.35in
  • Weight : 1.87lbs

SIDE 1 - Classic girthy dildo shape that is angles to stimulate the G-spot + added ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal opening

SIDE 2 - Angled, flat end for direct G-spot stimulation

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for those who prefer a little girth, folks that like medium-heavy weight, and people looking for G-spot stimulation.
  • Upward angled flat end is ideal for folks experimenting with squirting.
  • Accessible size for double penetration.

Usage Tips:

  • When using it vaginally, try facing it towards the anal canal to stimulate the V-Spot. The V-spot is the least-talked-about hot spot in the vulva-vaginal area. "V" stands for vaginal vestibule, the opening of the vagina, or the area just before entering the canal, right past the labia minora (inner lips). This whole area contains a ton of nerve endings, and "in some women, the nerves grow really close to the surface here," One of the most sensitive parts of the V-spot is the fourchette,located on the posterior (or bottom) of the vaginal opening. Arch is great for stimulating this because of its size and shape.
PRODUCT SPECIFICATIONS
  • Side 1 bulb : 1.53in
  • Length : 10.95in
  • Side 2 bulb : 1.92in
  • Weight : 4.45lbs

Expertly refined for easy maneuvering and deep penetration, the Contour is the undisputed Goliath among our new Stainless Steel collection.

SIDE 1 - Large walnut-shaped end reflects the ridges of the prostate and top vaginal wall, along with gentle curvature perfectly angled towards the G-spot/P-spot + delicate ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening.

SIDE 2 - Extra-Large walnut-shaped end reflects the ridges of the prostate and top vaginal wall, along with gentle curvature perfectly angled towards the G-spot/P-spot + delicate ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening.

SIDE 1 - Large walnut-shaped end reflects the ridges of the prostate and top vaginal wall, along with gentle curvature perfectly angled towards the G-spot/P-spot + delicate ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening.

SIDE 2 - Extra-Large walnut-shaped end reflects the ridges of the prostate and top vaginal wall, along with gentle curvature perfectly angled towards the G-spot/P-spot + delicate ridges to add extra stimulation to the sensitive vaginal/anal opening.

Design Features:

  • Ideal product for people seeking an extremely full-bodied, girthy stainless steel pleasure tool expertly refined for easy maneuvering and deep penetration.
  • Featuring 4.45 pounds of stainless steel- this is the true heavyweight of our collection
  • Designed for experienced users and often used for BDSM or kink users.

Usage Tips:

  • Nestle the walnut ends into the body and slowly rotate back and forth or gently tapping.
  • Gravity play at its finest and little movement may be necessary once inside the body.

using stainless steel sex toys
for all your sexual play

General tips and tricks before
you go on your merry way:

Before we dive into the types of play you can use stainless steel sex toys for, let’s start with a few of the foundational tips and tricks that you’ll need to keep in mind before you get going. Let’s face it, these toys can be a bit intimidating. It’s best to come to playtime with general knowledge to ensure a pleasurable and fun experience.

Make sure your toy is properly cleaned and dried before any use. Get yourself some lube. Be sure it’s a high quality, paraben-free lubricant. Our favorite is the Coconut Love Oil by Woo More Play.

Unless your partner is (or you are) a total pain slut, remember that gentler is better with these toys. They are heavy, like, you could straight up knock out a home invader with one of these bad boys so be careful with them. Partners should always be cognizant of each other. Check-in regularly and be sure everything feels good and nothing is painful or uncomfortable.

Be sure you’re buying the right toys for the right play. This is especially true for anal play. You want to be sure your dildo or butt plugs have a flared base. You don’t want it to get lost up there. For vaginal use, it might be best to use a wand with a larger, smoother top so as not to injure or damage the cervix.

For vaginal use

Stainless steel sex toys are awesome for vaginal play for two big reasons: The G-spot and an overall feeling of fullness.

Grab a stainless steel wand or dildo and go for it. To use the toy for G-spot play, lubricate well and inset into the vaginal opening. Tilt the toy up towards the G-spot. You can move it around slowly to create a rhythmic, thudd-y feeling, or simply tilt it and leave it in place, resting against the back end of the clitoris. A curved toy is optimal for this.

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If you’re going for a feeling of fullness, you can insert the toy all the way to the back of the vaginal canal and either leave it in place or move it in and out of the vagina. Check-in with your partner to ensure speed and depth are comfortable. Since the vagina doesn’t have a ton of touch-sensitive nerve endings, the pressure of a stainless steel toy can help to stimulate the deep, pressure-sensitive nerve endings. Add in external stimulation of the clitoris for a power-packed blended orgasm.

This deep, heavy sensation can feel immensely pleasurable. It can also stimulate the A-spot, the anterior-fornix erogenous zone, which is located on the anterior wall of the vagina, near the cervix. This spot can also be reached through anal penetration for some clit-owning people.

You can get creative with your stainless steel toys, just be sure to check in with your partner to make sure everyone is liking the experimentation.

For anal play and P-spot stimulation

You don’t need to use an enormous, girthy dildo to have good anal-play experiences. So if you’re worried about putting a giant metal wand up your bum, you don’t have to feel pressured to go big or go home. In fact, the anal opening is where the majority of nerves are located. There’s no need for deep penetration if that’s not your thing. Get yourself a stainless steel butt plug (like this one) and give it a go.
The Le Wand Contour is perfect for prostate play; if you’re looking for something lighter then go with the Le Wand Bow. The balls on either end of this toy are exceptional for deep stimulation of this gland. Use a generous about of lube (we recommend an oil-based or silicone-based lube for anal play). Insert the wand into the anal opening slowly. Be sure your partner is relaxed and breathing into the sensation. If you’re tensed up, they may end up in pain. No one wants that. Tilt the toy towards your partner’s belly button, resting it on the prostate gland. Some experts believe that P-spot stimulation can increase your orgasm intensity by up to 33%.

Temperature play

Just when you thought stainless steel sex toys could do it all, they did one better. Yet another awesome thing about these toys is their ability to adapt to temperature for tantalizing sensation play. Since they’re made of metal, they hold onto temperature quite well.

You can stick them in the freezer for a cool sensation over your entire body or warm them up against your body with or with warm water for a delightfully warm experience. There are even warming and cooling lubes specifically formulated for stainless steel sex toys.

This kind of play is super fun for kinky adventures. Have your partner lie on the bed and blindfold them. Use the frozen wand to trail circles all over their most sensitive areas. Stainless steel sex toys make for a customizable experience. Don’t be nervous, these toys won’t give you freezer burn. They warm up (or cool down) quite quickly.
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how to care for your
stainless steel sex toys

Best lube for stainless steel sex toys

One of the many benefits of stainless steel is that it is compatible with any type of lubricant. Other toys come with rules such as: Silicone lube can’t be used with silicone toys, etc. You can use oil-based, silicone or water-based lube. It’s totally up to you. Like we said, low-maintenance. We especially love coconut oil as lube.

How to clean a stainless steel sex toy

Cleaning these toys is one of the reasons we love them so very much. They are durable AF. You can straight up drop a stainless steel toy into a pot of boiling water to disinfect it. This easy-cleaning can be very helpful if you’re using your toys with multiple partners. There is virtually zero chance of any cross-contamination or the spreading of STIs. These toys are hella hygienic. Full metal jacket me, mate.
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You can also plop them onto the top rack of the dishwasher and call it a day. For being such intensely kinky-looking toys, they’re quite low maintenance. Keep in mind that some metal sex toys vibrate (like our Le Wand Chrome Mini Vibrators). If your toy is a metal-plated vibrator, you’ll want to clean it with soapy warm water, just like your silicone toys.


If you don’t clean your sex toys, they gather bacteria which could lead to an infection like BV. Not cute. It’s best practice to rinse a toy before using it, even if it is clean. This helps to remove any lingering dust particles.

How to store your sex toys

Be sure you’re keeping your toys in a cool, dry place. You want to be sure they are fully cleaned and dry before putting them away. Your nightside table is totally fine for storage, but if you’re a person who prefers super-sanitary, organized conditions you might want to get some storage containers. These clear plastic shoe organizer bins are perfect for storing intimate products under your bed. We all know none of us are bathing in an extra room in our apartments.

How to travel with a stainless sex steel toy

To prep a stainless steel toy for travel, wrap it gently in either some stockings or a soft piece of clothing. This way it can be taken with you without the threat of it scuffing or gathering bacteria while getting from point A to point B.

The obvious issue with a stainless steel sex toy? They are heavy. This makes traveling with them a bit on the tricky side. If possible, stick them in a carry on or backpack to avoid an overweight suitcase. Now, you might be thinking: How in the hell am I going to get this passed TSA?

While we personally think to tell a TSA agent that the metal object they have pulled from your backpack is a dildo is fine (and honestly, hilarious as hell), this approach might not be for everyone. If by some chance TSA does decide they need to take a look at your toy, do what people have been doing with sex toys since wand vibrators went mainstream in the 50s: Call it a back massager and move on with your day.
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