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Multiple orgasms have a reputation for being something that happens to a lucky few. The biology tells a different story. Most bodies can do this. What…
Alicia Sinclair
8 min
The G-spot gets all the press. Fair enough, but there’s an erogenous zone sitting a couple of inches deeper that most guides skip entirely, despite being…
Alicia Sinclair
9 min
Against the wall, in the kitchen, in the shower with the door barely shut – standing sex has an energy that horizontal positions can’t quite replicate.…
Alicia Sinclair
7 min
The orgasm gap is real. During partnered sex, vulva owners orgasm significantly less often than people with penises – and position is one of the reasons…
Alicia Sinclair
9 min
A voice drops low. A partner makes a sound that goes straight through you. A certain song comes on and your body shifts into a different…
Alicia Sinclair
9 min
What Makes a Massage “Sensual” (And Why It’s Worth Learning) A sensual massage and a deep tissue massage have almost nothing in common. Deep tissue work…
Why Spooning Sex Works So Well Spooning is one of the few sex positions that feels as emotionally connected as it is physically stimulating. You already…
Alicia Sinclair
9 min
The couples’ vibrator category is bigger than most people realize. There are toys designed specifically for shared play – wearable during penetration, remote-controlled from across the…
Alicia Sinclair
10 min
You’ve heard about full body orgasms and you’re wondering if they’re actually real or just something people exaggerate about online. Fair question. Here’s the short answer:…
Alicia Sinclair
11 min
Here’s the thing: most of us grew up with the same mental script. Orgasm equals hand plus genitals. Direct stimulation, predictable outcome. That’s the whole formula,…
Alicia Sinclair
12 min
What Orgasm Denial Actually Is (And How It Differs from Edging) These two terms get used interchangeably, and that causes real confusion. They’re related but they…
Ready to explore the legendary G-spot? Whether you’re curious about internal pleasure for the first time or looking to upgrade your current toy collection, finding the…
Alicia Sinclair
Updated
24 min
Clitoral Suction Vibrator Quick Guide Clitoral suction vibrators (aka clit suckers) use air pulse technology for touchless stimulation. Always start with arousal and water-based lube for…
Alicia Sinclair
13 min
Let’s talk about that elusive “aha!” moment when you discover what all the G-spot fuss is about. You know, that moment when your body goes from…
Alicia Sinclair
9 min
Ready to discover why bullet vibrators have become the must-have in so many bedside drawers? These mighty mini powerhouses prove that incredible pleasure doesn’t require intimidating…
Alicia Sinclair
Updated
17 min
Looking to experience what all the buzz is about with clitoral suction toys? These innovative pleasure tools have revolutionized how we think about clitoral stimulation, using…
Alicia Sinclair
15 min
There are a lot of myths surrounding what tantric sex looks and feels like. Ever since singer Sting said in an interview some 20 years ago…
Amanda Chatel
Updated
14 min
If you have never heard of the term vaginal mapping, then your mind might wander off to a place where maps look like vaginas and vaginas…
Amanda Chatel
Updated
8 min
If you grew up adjacent to any religious institution, you were either completely enthralled with the idea of sex because it sounded so off-limits or put…
As we bid adieu to Summer, the pressure of going into the holiday season single might start getting to us… (statistically, a lot of us), which…
Amanda Chatel
Updated
8 min
Despite being a sexual practice that goes back centuries — and is somewhat akin to Tantra, Taoism, and similar practices — it’s only been since the…
Amanda Chatel
Updated
7 min
What is dry humping? Can you do it solo? What are the best positions and techniques to dry hump? Sex educator Amanda Chatel reveals it all…
Amanda Chatel
Updated
13 min
Sex date with yourself? Yes, please! No one knows your body like you, and that can make masturbation one of the most intimate and stimulating acts…
Alicia Sinclair
Updated
6 min
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