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Sep 09, 2024
Founder, Carly Pifer, started the site to create the content she wants to consume. Sex that is representative, emotional, messy, feminist, and real. In the process, she discovered that writing non-fiction erotica can be incredibly healing—allowing people to rewrite their encounters helps them identify their desires, work on communication, educate …
Jun 19, 2026
How to Have Multiple Orgasms: Techniques for Vulva Owners, Penis Owners, and Everyone in Between
Jun 19, 2026
TL;DR: Multiple Orgasms Explained Multiple orgasms come in two forms: sequential (distinct climaxes with short pauses) and rolling waves (staying in an orgasmic state without fully coming down between peaks). Most bodies can do one or both. Vulva owners have a physiological head start thanks to a very short or …
TL;DR: The A-Spot Explained The A-spot (anterior fornix erogenous zone) sits about 2 inches deeper than the G-spot on the front vaginal wall. It feels smooth rather than spongy, and it responds better to gentle, steady pressure than to rapid motion. Get fully aroused before you go exploring. When aroused, …
Jun 19, 2026
TL;DR: Finding the Right Position Most vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. That’s anatomy, not a problem. Position determines how much clitoral contact you’re actually getting. This guide organizes positions by stimulation type: clitoral-focused, G-spot-focused, and positions that hit both at once. Pick based on what your body responds …
Jun 19, 2026
Why Sound Is One of the Most Powerful Turn-Ons You Have (And What Auralism Really Means)
Jun 19, 2026
TL;DR: Auralism Explained Auralism is sexual arousal triggered by sound – moaning, whispering, dirty talk, music, ASMR, and even the steady hum of a vibrator can all be triggers. It’s more common than most people realize. If you’ve ever felt turned on by a voice, a moan, or a particular …
Apr 21, 2026
TL;DR: Key Takeaways Full body orgasms are absolutely real, and yes, you can learn to have them. They happen when pleasure spreads beyond your genitals and ripples through your entire nervous system. Three foundations make it possible: deep belly breathing, pelvic floor engagement, and staying mentally present in your body. …
Apr 09, 2025
What is Cuffing Season?
Apr 09, 2025
As we bid adieu to Summer, the pressure of going into the holiday season single might start getting to us… (statistically, a lot of us), which is when Cuffing Season begins! But what exactly is it and why do so many of us go for the post-summer shack-up? Sexual health …
Aug 21, 2024
What is Tantric Sex?
Aug 21, 2024
There are a lot of myths surrounding what tantric sex looks and feels like. Ever since singer Sting said in an interview some 20 years ago that he and his wife have seven-hour-long tantric sex sessions, people have been scratching their heads. Seven hours? But the confusion likely comes from …
How to Activate Your Sacral Chakra
Aug 21, 2024
If you grew up adjacent to any religious institution, you were either completely enthralled with the idea of sex because it sounded so off-limits or put off by it, thanks to the bullshit lessons the church taught you. I am absolutely the first example (my partner, the latter), and now, …
Jun 15, 2024
The Karezza Method
Jun 15, 2024
Despite being a sexual practice that goes back centuries — and is somewhat akin to Tantra, Taoism, and similar practices — it’s only been since the early 20th Century that the term Karezza Method has entered our vernacular. What is the Karezza Method? The word “Karezza” is actually a play …
Nov 12, 2025
TL;DR Everything You Need to Know About Dry Humping What it is: Genital stimulation through rubbing/grinding without penetration (with or without clothes) Major benefits: STI-safe with clothes on, amazing foreplay, accessible for all bodies, can be done solo Best positions: Straddling, missionary, standing against a wall Safety tips: Watch for …
Aug 06, 2024
Best Vulva Masturbation Techniques
Aug 06, 2024
Sex date with yourself? Yes, please! No one knows your body like you, and that can make masturbation one of the most intimate and stimulating acts you can do with yourself. Here are eight vulva masturbation techniques to try right now! What Are the Benefits of Masturbating? Masturbation goes beyond …
Feb 29, 2024
How To Become a Sex Educator
Feb 29, 2024
There are so many who dream about getting into the sex education field, but don’t know exactly where to start. That’s where this article comes in. I started my own sex educator journey back in 2016. At the time, I was a part-time freelance writer and full-time dreamer. I knew …
