How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator: Your Complete Guide to Dual Stimulation

No matter how much older and wiser we get, we'll never forget that episode in Sex and The City when Charlotte essentially dates a rabbit vibrator. She spends days in bed, forgoing the miserable dating scene in NYC for the promise of a screaming orgasm from her favorite, trusted sex toy.

What you may not know is that this scene jolted the rabbit vibrator into sex toy fame, making it one of the most popular sex toys you can buy. And honestly? Charlotte was onto something. As a certified sex coach and educator, I always recommend three main vibes to my clients: A classic wand sex toy, a bullet vibrator, and a rabbit vibrator.

Ready to discover what all the hype is about? This comprehensive guide on how to use a rabbit vibrator walks you through everything from your first introduction to advanced techniques – because everyone deserves to experience the magic of simultaneous stimulation.

What Is a Rabbit Vibrator? Understanding Dual Stimulation

A rabbit vibrator is sort of a Jane of All Trades. It combines both internal G-spot stimulation (and even cervical, depending on preference) along with external clitoral stimulation. It does both at once – quite a feat for a sex toy.

Rabbits come with a long, often curve G-spot wand along with a small, attached clitoral stimulator on the base of the toy. There are motors in the tip and base of the wand, though this will vary from toy to toy.

The clit stimulator of the original Rabbit vibrator had two bunny ears to stimulate either side of the clit – hence the name "Rabbit." The one from Sex and The City even had a cute little rabbit face. Today's rabbits have evolved into sleek, elegant styles that still deliver those same jaw-dropping orgasms. Other rabbits have pinpointed or rounded stimulators, and there are even lay-on rabbit vibes if that's your preference.

Will You Enjoy Using a Rabbit Vibrator?

If you enjoy both internal and external stimulation, a rabbit vibrator is an absolute must. It does everything you want a sex toy to do. You don't even need to use both functions at once – a rabbit is lovely for external stimulation on its own. Basically, it's a vibrator that does it all.

Research shows that about 70% of people with vulvas need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, making this dual stimulation vibrator design particularly appealing. You might love a rabbit vibrator if you:

• Want to explore blended orgasms
• Like having your hands free for other activities
• Appreciate not having to choose between G-spot and clitoral pleasure
• Are unsure what kind of vibrator you need and want something that promises to get the job done

But let's address what scares off many would-be rabbit users: the aggressive shape and size of some vibrators. Some rabbits have spinning beads in the base and rotating phallic heads. For a sex toy neophyte, this can be a bit alarming. But not all rabbits are built the same! You can get a rabbit vibrator that is in no way scary.

How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

1. Get Familiar with Your Rabbit's Features

Before getting into this rabbit vibrator guide's practical tips, use the buttons on the base of the rabbit vibe to find a speed that works for you. Go slowly and find your pace. Most modern rabbits have:

• Multiple vibration patterns (pulsing, escalating, steady)
• Various intensity levels (start low and work your way up!)
• Flexible or rigid external arms
• Different motor controls for each stimulation point

Test the vibrations on your hand or inner arm first. This helps you understand what each setting feels like without overwhelming sensitive areas.

2. Prepare Your Body and Mind

Arousal is your best friend when it comes to rabbit vibrator success. Your vagina naturally expands and self-lubricates when turned on, making penetration more comfortable and pleasurable. Take your time with foreplay – whether that's reading erotica, enjoying a sensual massage, or starting with external play.

And don't forget your favorite water-based lube or even a warming lube for extra sensations. Lube is always a must, no matter what kind of play you're engaging in.

3. Find Your Perfect Position

You can use a rabbit alone or with a partner. My personal preference for clients is to use it with a partner, as reaching down that low can sometimes be a challenge. If you want to use it alone, try putting your feet on a pillow for extra lift.

Start with these beginner-friendly positions:

• Lying on your back – Knees bent, feet flat on the bed. This classic position gives you full control over insertion depth and angle.
• Propped up with pillows – Elevating your hips can help the internal arm reach your G-spot more easily while keeping the external arm in contact with your clitoris.
• On your side – Great for relaxed exploration and allows natural hip movements.

4. Start Slow and Explore

Begin with the external arm only, letting it vibrate against your clitoris while you get comfortable with the sensations. When you're ready for penetration:

1. Apply lube generously to both you and the toy
2. Insert slowly, paying attention to what feels good
3. Don't aim for full insertion right away – even an inch or two can feel amazing
4. Rock or angle the toy until the internal arm hits spots that make you go "oh!"

Your G-spot typically sits 1-3 inches inside the vaginal canal on the front wall. It might feel slightly textured or spongier than surrounding tissue. But remember – not everyone enjoys G-spot stimulation, and that's totally fine!

5. Experiment with Settings and Movements

Now comes the fun part – finding your perfect combination of sensations. Try:

• Cycling through vibration patterns while keeping the toy still
• Gentle thrusting or rocking motions
• Circular movements to vary the pressure
• Adjusting the angle to hit different spots
• Using one arm at a time to identify what you prefer

Building toward a blended orgasm often means finding the sweet spot where both types of stimulation complement each other without overwhelming your senses.

Advanced Techniques for Rabbit Vibrator Play

Solo Play Variations

Once you've mastered the basics, these rabbit vibrator tips and tricks will expand your repertoire:

• Standing play – Prop one foot on the tub edge during shower time with a waterproof model
• Seated stimulation – Straddle a pillow or rolled towel for hands-free grinding while the rabbit works its magic
• Temperature play – Run your silicone rabbit under warm water before use (never boiling!) for cozy sensations
• Edging adventures – Build yourself close to orgasm, then switch to the lowest setting or remove the toy completely. Repeat until you can't take it anymore for explosive results.

Using Your Rabbit with a Partner

Rabbit vibrators can add incredible dimensions to partnered play. Communication is key – let your partner know what feels good and guide their hand if needed.

Try these couple-friendly approaches:

• Have your partner control the settings while you focus on sensation
• Use during oral sex for dual stimulation overload
• Incorporate into penetrative sex positions where there's room for the external arm
• Take turns using it on each other during foreplay

Choosing the Right Rabbit Vibrator for Your Body

What to Avoid

My first rabbit was a scary AF, disco white, jelly nightmare from the far corners of the imagination. I don't want this for you, and you don't want this for you. Be sure that whichever rabbit vibrator you choose, you pick something made from body-safe or medical-grade silicone. Anything made from jelly or soft plastic is a no-go.

Key Features to Consider

• Size matters – Both length and girth affect comfort. Check out our mini rabbits here – super sleek while offering all the internal and external properties of a classic rabbit.
• Flexibility – A bendy external arm accommodates more body types than rigid designs. The Le Wand Blend features a flexible neck that adapts to different anatomies.
• Material quality – Always choose 100% body-safe silicone. It's non-porous, easy to clean, and feels amazing against skin.

Different Types of Rabbit Vibrators

• Traditional dual-arm – The classic design with shaft and clitoral stimulator
• G-spot focused – Curved internal arms designed to target that special spot – the Le Wand XO features a unique comma shape perfect for this
• Thrusting rabbits – Add up-and-down motion to mimic penetrative sex
• External-only options – Twin-motor designs that embrace the clitoris without penetration
• So, what's the best rabbit vibrator? Our favorites are the Le Wand XO and the Le Wand Blend – both offer premium materials, powerful motors, and thoughtful design.

Caring for Your Rabbit Vibrator

Cleaning Your Rabbit Properly

Keep your toy body-safe and functioning perfectly with proper care:

Before first use AND after each session –

1. Wash with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap
2. Pay special attention to crevices where fluids might hide
3. Rinse thoroughly – soap residue can cause irritation
4. Pat dry with a clean towel or air dry completely

For deeper cleaning, toy cleaners designed for silicone work wonderfully. Never submerge non-waterproof rabbits or get water near charging ports.

Storage Best Practices

• Store in a breathable pouch (many quality rabbits include one!)
• Keep away from other silicone toys to prevent material degradation
• Remove batteries if applicable to prevent corrosion
• Charge before storing for extended periods

Troubleshooting Common Challenges

• "The arms don't hit the right spots" – Every body is different! Try different positions, angles, or consider a rabbit with adjustable arms.
• "It's too intense" – Start with the lowest settings and build up. Using through underwear can also dampen sensations while you adjust.
• "I can't orgasm from it" – Orgasms aren't the only goal! Enjoy the journey and remember that many people need specific types of stimulation that might differ from what a rabbit provides.

"My partner feels intimidated" – Frame it as a tool for mutual pleasure. Let them control it sometimes or use it together during foreplay.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Can beginners use rabbit vibrators? 

Absolutely! Learning how to use a rabbit vibrator for beginners starts with models that have multiple speed settings and flexible arms. Begin with external stimulation only. The Mini Rabbit is perfect for newcomers.

What lube works best with rabbit vibrators? 

Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys. Silicone or oil-based lubes can degrade the material.

Are rabbit vibrators safe for anal play? 

Most rabbits are designed specifically for vaginal use. For anal play, choose toys with flared bases designed for that purpose.

How do I know if I've found my G-spot? 

It often feels slightly textured and may swell with arousal. You might experience a "need to pee" sensation or deeper pleasure. Not everyone enjoys G-spot stimulation, and that's perfectly normal!

Can people with penises use rabbit vibrators?

Yes! The external arm can stimulate the perineum or testicles while the shaft provides prostate stimulation. Always ensure any toy used anally has a flared base.

How long do rabbit vibrators typically last? 

With proper care, quality silicone rabbits can last 5+ years. Regular cleaning, correct storage, and following charging instructions maximize lifespan.