Ahhh, October!
(Image courtesy of BlakSyn @synblak)
The month where we celebrate as freaks and ghouls proudly in the BDSM (Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism) culture and learn more about kinks and tolerance. I love this month because there’s something about being a Submissive (Sub) that yields the power in understanding mind over matter and being able to share that knowledge with folks. And as creative the Sub becomes with being controlled by their Dom, we start to explore more pleasure tools to play with along our bondage accessories and delve into the unknown.
5 Kinky Ways to Use Your Sex Toys
1. Edging
The ultimate teasing experience where bringing yourself or your partner close to orgasm multiple times becomes quite pleasurable.
Edging is the act of teasing your body over and over again without striking an orgasm. It helps to increase libido and can prepare you for longer sexual experiences. For every type of orgasm inside and outside the body, the Complete Le Wand Pleasure Set has you covered.
2. Weighted Play
The Le Wand Contour is going to have you at its beck and call for the dense girth and pressure. This weighted stainless steel gem is the heaviest of the collection and needs very little action to achieve the loudest satisfaction.
The Contour’s walnut-shaped end provides the most targeted, juicy G-spot and prostate stimulation inside the body. No thrusting needed! So, the best way to achieve this is to place the Contour inside your body for the desired pressure and gently rock it back and forth. I found that laying on your back was the most comfortable position due to its near 4lb weight.
Bonus tip: Use any of the Le Wand Chrome mini vibes on the clitoris or penis head for dual stimulation and next-level orgasms. Oh, and of course the Contour is perfectly designed for temperature play!
3. Shibari
Shibari, meaning to tie in Japanese, is a beautiful form of rope bondage. This play becomes so fluid in its many knots and binds as it restricts the body from blood flow in many areas while making the parts sensitive.
But did you know that you can add a Le Wand to the bind? I get so amazed by the design of our Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager and its durability to be tied tight to the body without it slipping from the knots. In many positions, the Le Wand can be placed directly onto the genitals and turned on and off by the Rigger (the person doing the tying) causing the Rope Bunny (the person tied up) tons of pleasure and edging experiences.
4. Ass Worship
In the BDSM culture, ass worship has more to do with pleasure outside the butt. The Sub is immersed in licking, sucking, kissing, and massaging their Dom’s booty for however long the Dom wants. Thankfully, the Anal Massage & Education Set is the perfect toolbox to add to the worshiping experience.
The Le Wand Petite can be used to massage the cheeks, anus, and gooch. With the Curve Petite attachment, experience light rumbles or tapping while giving your mouth a break… if your Dom allows it of course. Doms can place the Snug Plug inside the vagina or anal canal for increased pressure as the booty can have more stimulation when being kissed or receiving vibration. Use the lube launcher to squeeze your favorite lube between the cheeks for delicious analingus action.
5. Sex Machines
For the power seeker, lifestyle swinger, and voyeurs, a sex machine is the golden egg experience that comes to and far in between!
With just a single ride on The Cowgirl, our minds are sent to a far-out realm of pleasure full of power and control. This sex machine has it all folks! Use this ultimate ride to levels of continuous squirting with either the Raw Hide or Wild West silicone attachments.
Whether you’re going solo or with a partner, the handheld LED remote or App can be controlled with a simple dial turn or swipe. Tie your Bunny or Sub down with the durable handles on the sides of the machine for extreme control and dominance. The ride becomes endless as the pleasure maximizes each orgasm.
Special note:
BDSM is an extreme culture of pain and pleasure. So be sure to play with someone you trust and can easily communicate with consent. Be sure to eat and drink water before scenes, use safe words, and make sure your mind is in a positive space.